Constipation in Toddlers

Constipation is a common problem among children, affecting 1 in 3 kids.

It is particularly common around the time of toilet training or starting solids.

Constipation can cause confusion and stress for parents as there is a lot of misinformation around.

In this article, we are answering all your questions about constipation in toddlers – how to spot it, common causes, foods that can help and other tactics to relieve constipation.


What is constipation?

Constipation refers to passing a hard stool (type 1 or 2 on the Bristol Stool Chart) and/or not having regular bowel movements. Specifically, constipation is diagnosed when your child is passing less than two stools per week for more than two weeks.

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Signs your child may be constipated include:

  • Passing dry or hard pellet-like stools
  • Straining when trying to pass stool
  • Pain while passing stool
  • Loss of appetite
  • Stomach pain or discomfort


What causes constipation?

In most cases of constipation (around 95% of cases) there is no serious underlying cause. Constipation can happen for a number of reasons including:

  • Naturally slow gut movement.
  • Ignoring the urge to poo. Many young children put off going to the toilet while busy playing; their poo then becomes harder and larger.
  • “Holding on” after a painful or frightening experience, such as doing a hard poo that causes a small cut or tear, or because they are told to do so (typically at school). Holding on further hardens the poo and makes the next bowel movement even more painful.
  • A change in environment such as new or undesirable school toilets.
  • Transitioning to solid foods.
  • A diet high in processed foods and low in fresh fruit and vegetables.
  • Drinking large amounts of cow’s milk each day.
  • Low levels of physical activity.

In a very small number of children, diseases such as the absence of normal nerve endings in parts of the bowel, defects of the spinal cord, thyroid deficiency and certain other metabolic disorders can cause constipation. All of these are rare, but your doctor will check your child for them.


Diet and constipation

When it comes to dietary strategies, fluid and fibre are going to be your best friends in combatting constipation.

Adequate fluid intake will help to ensure stools remain soft and easier to pass. All drinks, including water and milk, count towards fluid intake. As a general guide:

  • If your child is aged 1-3 years, aim for 1L fluid per day
  • If your child is aged 4-8 years aim for 1.2L fluid per day

Children who sweat a lot, either because they are physically active or live somewhere hot, may need more fluids to stay hydrated. To help meet these requirements, offer water with meals and snacks and invest in a cute drink bottle they can take to daycare, preschool or school.

Whilst fibre alone will not resolve constipation (especially without also increasing fluids), adequate intake can help to improve stool consistency. The current guidelines are:

  • For children aged 1-3 years, 14g fibre per day
  • For children aged 4-8 years, 18g fibre per day

These targets can be met by eating a balanced diet including plenty of whole grains, fruits, and vegetables. Specific foods you might like to try out are:

Constipation in Toddlers


Positional support

When your child goes to the toilet, try and introduce positional support (foot support, elbows on knees) to improve their bowel motions. The right set up can take a bit of time to figure out and get used to. Do your best to make the experience as relaxing and enjoyable as possible for your child.

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Stool softeners

For intermittent constipation, the combination of dietary strategies, positional support and encouraging your child to use the toilet after a meal could be enough to resolve the issue.

For ongoing constipation, or if your child is very uncomfortable, there are treatments available.

Stool softeners are safe and effective for use in children and can be used long term. The stool softeners recommended today are very different to the laxatives of yesteryear which could result in dependency or bowel addiction. If your doctor recommends a stool softener, feel confident this is safe for your child.

Use stool softeners for as long as your doctor recommends and be consistent with the treatment regimen. Children who have been constipated for many months are likely to need laxative treatment for several months, in addition to keeping healthy bowel habits.


Take home

Children can be constipated for many reasons. If you think your child may be constipated there are a range of lifestyle interventions you can try such as ensuring adequate fluids, fibre, stool softeners and positional support. It’s also a good idea to visit your GP or dietitian to prevent any complications.